Tuesday, October 9, 2018

The Paths of Righteousness- Julia Chastain

“He leads me in paths of righteousness for His Name’s sake.” Ps. 23:4b (NIV)

I was reading a series of books recently about a quest in another world, and the main character had to search through all these old prophecies to find the clues he needed to know the next step in his journey. He traveled all over the world with his closest friends, following the clues and figuring out the riddles until he finally got to the end of his quest and found what he was looking for. At one point in the story, he asked the question, “Why is it so hard to find our next clue? Why can’t someone just tell us clearly where we’re supposed to go and what we’re supposed to do?” The answer he was given? If the prophecies had been more clear and understandable, then anyone could have found what he was seeking, but he was the only one who was supposed to find the clues, so he was obliged to search them out and study their meanings. Needless to say, that lessened his frustration only a little. I am so glad that God doesn’t do that to us.

Psalm 23, the Shepherd’s Psalm, is a song David wrote describing God’s loving care of His children. David talks about God’s providence of physical and spiritual needs, His protection in the face of death and in the presence of one’s enemies, and David’s own assurance of God’s continued blessings throughout his own life. But there’s a verse in the middle of that psalm that really got me thinking: “He leads me in paths of righteousness for His Name’s sake” (Ps. 23:4b) God’s guidance extends, not just to our needs, but also to our deeds. The term “paths of righteousness” refers to the way we live our lives—many times the Bible compares our lifestyle to a walk, a path or a road. In Genesis 5-6, both Enoch and Noah were described as men who “walked with God”, implying a close relationship with the Father that was visible to those around them because of their lifestyle. Numerous times in the New Testament, our lifestyle is described in terms of a “walk”, a way that we travel: Ephesians 5:2 tells us to “walk in love, as Christ also has loved us”; in Philippian 3:17-18 we are encouraged to follow the example of those who walk in the path laid out by the apostles and avoid those who walk as enemies of Christ; and in Colossians 3:7-8 and 4:5 we are instructed to no longer walk in the ways of the world and sinfulness, but instead to “walk in wisdom” around those who do not know the love of Christ (KJV). And then, of course, there are the numerous times the Apostle Paul referred to his life as a race in which he was running to win the prize (Phil. 3:12-14, II Tim. 4:6-8, Heb. 12:1).

My point in all this is that the Bible gives us ample instruction on how to walk through our daily lives; as we read and study God’s Word, the Holy Spirit speaks to our hearts, teaching us the right way to live. What’s interesting is the reason He gives us this guidance—“for His Name’s sake”. Over the years I’ve noticed that you can tell who or what anybody worships by the way he/she lives his/her life and the things he/she says and does—if his god is money, for example, he’s going to spend all his time making, saving and stockpiling it; if her god is herself, everything she does will be to push herself forward and make herself appear better to others. Extreme examples could include the Manson gang or the worshipers of the Indian goddess of death, Kali Durga—both groups routinely murdered innocent people because of their belief systems. Just so, as Christians, our actions reflect on our Savior, and because our God cares about the way His children act, He gives them guidance and instruction on how to live in a way that pleases Him and reflects on Who He is intrinsically. We don’t have to go searching for clues and figuring out riddles like the hero in the book I read did; God spells out exactly what He wants His children to do in His Word.

When we follow God’s guidance, we become shining witnesses of the God that we serve. This for a Christian is one of our greatest defenses against a wicked and unbelieving world, for as the Apostle Peter told the suffering Christians in the first century, “Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day He visits us” (I Pet. 2:12), and having kept “a clear conscience, …those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander” (3:16). I’m reminded of Daniel in the Old Testament who lived such a blameless life, that when his enemies wanted to bring charges against him, the only thing they could find to accuse him with was his faith in Jehovah God (Dan. 6:4-5). He is a good example to the rest of us on how to walk the paths of righteousness David was talking about.

Of course, the opposite is also true—when we choose to disobey God’s instructions in the Bible, we slander Christ’s name and run the danger of reaping the consequences of sin in our lives. Two examples that come to mind immediately are King Saul and Ananias and Sapphira. King Saul was given specific instructions to exterminate a group of people who had disregarded the Lord and been a plague and a thorn in the side of Israel for some time, but he chose to disobey his orders and allow certain valuable people (think ransom) and animals (think growing one’s personal wealth) to survive. This single act of disobedience cost him his kingship and his relationship with God; after all, a man who refuses to listen to God cannot really have a relationship with Him, can he? Ananias and Sapphira were two Christians in the first church of Jerusalem who chose to lie to the church elders (a.k.a. the apostles) in order to appear more generous to the church than they actually had been. Peter told them quite bluntly in Acts 5:3-4, “You have not lied to men, but to God!”, at which point they each fell down dead at his feet! If they had been allowed to live after lying like that, others might have followed their terrible example and caused great hurt to the name of Christ in that fledgling church, hence the severity of their punishment. Perhaps these are extreme examples, but it doesn’t take a genius to figure out the consequences for disobeying the command to avoid sex outside of marriage or to abstain from stealing or lying or coveting. I heard someone say once that if God is our Creator/Inventor, then the Bible is our instruction manual on how to make the machinery run most smoothly, and so it follows that if we want our lives to run smoothly without all the drama and stress caused by sin, then it behooves us to follow the directions God has given us in His Word.

The thing is, God wants that even more for His children than they want it for themselves; that’s why He gave us the instructions in the first place. “He leads [us] in the paths of righteousness for His name’s sake”, but not just because He cares about the reputation we give Him—He also cares deeply for us. He wants to prevent all the heartache and physical and emotional fallout that sin brings into our lives, so that we can, as Jesus said in John 10:10, “have life to the fullest.” This is why He becomes, as Isaiah 30:21 states, “a voice behind you, saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it.’” He is the inner voice of our conscience, telling us when we’re about to make a mistake or make the wrong decision, and if we listen to Him, we will find ourselves guided into those paths of righteousness where there is goodness and mercy and where we can “dwell in the house of the LORD forever” (Ps. 23:6). That is truly the path to joy.

Sunday, March 25, 2018

Abstinence, Accidents, and Amazing Grace


Last week, my oldest brought a mechanical baby home as part of his course of study in FACS (Family and Consumer Science). Now, I totally took advantage of the situation, documenting the event with pictures and humorous captions I posted on social media. My excitement was through the roof. Why? Three reason.

First, even though this lesson was for my son, God was using it to speak to me.

Second, because my son is not overly fond of small offspring and for him to be the sole caretaker of one, even for a few days, just tickles my funny bone.

Third, I chose to use that humor as a tool, hopefully embarrassing him enough that he’ll remain abstinent until he’s 50!

 Okay, that may be a touch dramatic, but nevertheless, the sense of the statement remains. One of the points of having to simulate the care of a newborn with feeding, diapering, rocking, and burping is to encourage abstinence in these young adults by showing them exactly what they’re up against when their few minutes of pleasure turns into a lifelong commitment.

Which leads me to the point of this whole post… What if, after all the conversations, all the biblical (1 Thess. 4:3,7) and moral teachings about why abstinence until you’re married is so vital, and an  “accident” happens? When a new life, who didn’t asked to be conceived to two underage, unwed, far from ready children, becomes a reality? It begs the question, how would I/will I/should I respond, not just as a parent who finds themselves in that situation, but foremost as a Christian.

First, I think we, as Christian parents and adults need to step outside of that role and remember that since our salvation, our titles as mother/father, friend, and family member, come only second to that as Child of God. Any and all reactions to the situation should be dealt with as such; offering compassion, love, and amazing grace that Jesus so freely bestowed and demonstrated for us all. We need to remember that as Christians, our actions are what both pull people to God and push them away!

In my opinion, it is this lack of Christian empathy, understanding, and sin-filled sense of superiority (your sin is worse than my sin- mentality) that has allowed the evil of Satan, in the form of abortion clinics like Planned Parenthood to gain such a foothold in our society.
Why is that?

It’s because we have failed! Those of us who call ourselves Christians have failed! Those of us who claim a place in the church and among God’s family, have failed!

Sure, Satan has been hard at work destroying the foundation of family for years (just look at Adam and Eve), but for the love of all that is holy, we Christians have been his cohorts in crime for centuries.

Those of us who have remained silent by choosing to live out our faith in private instead of public- allowing legislation that legalizes murder to be passed. Those of us whose damming silence and dirty looks push that young girl into ending the life she carries because she cares more for the thoughts of strangers than for that baby. Those of us who choose condemnation over compassion by destroying the support system that that young girl should be able to depend on, leaving her nowhere to turn. Or those who refuse to step into the role of supporting parent instead choosing to save face and encourage the “easy way” out. Those of us women who ARE old enough to support a new life on our own, yet too selfish to take responsibility for our actions and put the needs of a small life ahead of our own needs/wants by placing them with a well chosen family who would love for nothing more than to open their hearts and homes to the life you would kill.

We’ve deluded ourselves and society into thinking that these “accidents” have to be remedied, instead of seeing them for what they are. A part of God’s plan!

Now, I am not condoning, nor encouraging teenage/unplanned pregnancy no matter the age- all I am doing is trying to look at a reoccurring situation from a godly point of view. God wants us to practice abstinence and remain celibate until marriage, but in his His infinite foresight, He knows many of us will CHOOSE not too. Understanding this, let me ask you a question. Does God make mistakes? We call unplanned pregnancies “accidents”, refer to some these babies as “whoops babies”. But are they really?

To answer this question, we need to have a clear understanding of God, who He is and what He is capable of.
In 2 Samuel 22:31, David proclaims, “As for God, His way is perfect.”

Psalm 29:4- “The voice of the LORD is powerful ; The voice of the LORD is full of majesty.”

Psalm 147:5- “Great is our LORD, and of great power: His understanding is infinite”
If any man made mistakes in his life, it was David!

Deuteronomy 32:4- “He is the Rock, His work is perfect: for all His ways are judgment: a God of truth and without iniquity, just and right is He.”

Nehemiah 9:6- “Thou, even thou, art LORD alone; thou hast made heaven, the heaven of heavens, with all their host, the earth, and all things that are there in, the seas, and all that is therein, and thou preservest them all; and the host of heaven worshippeth thee.”

By now, you should be realizing that even though we make mistakes, God doesn’t. He’s not capable of it. The same God who created the stars, the heavens, and the angels, created you, me, and those “accidents”.

So the next time we come across an unwed/underage parent, or find ourselves in a similar situation (or even dissimilar situation), we need to remember…

God doesn’t make mistakes; He makes witnesses.

He created us to be witnesses of His love, to testify of His amazing grace, to embody His message of forgiveness, compassion, and exhortation. To bring other to Him so that they may have eternal life. Our actions reflect our testimony and it is by our actions that not only could a physical life be saved, but a spiritual life as well.